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The bitter feud between the surviving members of the band Boston exploded anew yesterday with band founder Tom Scholz firing off a letter to the ex-wife of singer Brad Delp demanding she stop making “statements in which you place any blame whatsoever” on Scholz for Delp’s suicide.

 

Tom Scholz has penned a letter to Brad Delp’s ex asking her to lay off on statements of blame.
Tom Scholz has penned a letter to Brad Delp’s ex asking her to lay off on statements of blame.
The letter leaves open the possibility that Scholz could sue Micki Delp, the mother of Brad’s two children, if she does not “retract” statements that she made in an exclusive interview with the Herald last week.

 

Micki Delp told the Herald that her ex-husband Brad, who committed suicide two weeks ago in the bathroom of his New Hampshire home, was under a great deal of pressure personally and professionally. However, Micki Delp never blamed Scholz for his death.

 

She said Delp was upset over the fact his friend and band mate Fran Cosmo had been dropped from Boston’s summer tour. But Scholz, the MIT-educated engineer who founded the band in 1976, said the decision to drop Cosmo was not final and that Delp was not troubled over the matter. Cosmo’s son Anthony, however, was scratched from the tour.  

 

“The decision to rehearse without the Cosmos was a group decision,” Scholz said in a statement to the Herald. “Brad never expressed unhappiness with that decision . . . and took an active part in arranging the vocals for five people, not seven.”

 

Yesterday, Scholz told the Associated Press that Delp was his“closest friend and collaborator in music for over 35 years. He said he was crushed by Delp’s suicide and the fact that he was not invited to his funeral and feels he is being unfairly blamed for Delp’s suicide.

 

“It went from devastating on the initial phone call to an absolute nightmare,” Scholz told the AP in a tearful telephone interview.

 

Delp died March 9 after he sealed himself inside a bathroom in his Atkinson, N.H., home, lit two charcoal grills and committed suicide via carbon monoxide poisoning.

 

“Mr. Brad Delp. J’ai une ame solitaire. I am a lonely soul,” said one of several suicide notes he left for his family and fiance, Pamela Sullivan. “I take complete and sole responsibility for my present situation.” The note also included instructions on how to contact Sullivan and how to find his cat, Floppy.

 

Delp joined Boston in the mid-1970s and sang two of its biggest hits, “More than a Feeling” and “Long Time.” But the group had an ugly breakup more than 20 years ago and Delp was caught in the middle. He continued to work with Scholz and Boston but also gigged with Barry Goudreau, Fran Sheehan and Sib Hashian, former members of the band who had a fierce falling out with Scholz in the early ’80s.

 

As a result, Delp was constantly caught in the middle of the warring factions. The situation was complicated by the fact that Delp’s ex-wife, Micki, is the sister of Goudreau’s wife, Connie.

 

Micki Delp could not be reached for comment yesterday, but Connie Goudreau said the family would have no further comment.

 

“Nothing we can say will bring him back,” Goudreau said.

 

By Gayle Fee
Saturday, March 24, 2007
Boston Herald

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Lloyd Harp said:

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I really feel bad for Tom in all of this. First, he had to deal with the grief of losing a friend and band member. Now he has to try to deal with this. I've wanted to seek out Tom's e-mail address, just to offer some support to him. This has got to be crushing to him.... also on other family members. I agree with all the others, this was not the time to bring this up. Somehow, I wonder if Brad knew this might happen this way (the reason he left the note that he did).
 
March 29, 2007
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Dan_NC said:

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I agree with tstfrd's post. Whatever Micki Delp or whoever planned Brad's funeral may have thought of Tom Scholz, that was not the time for a "power-play" by way of the snub. I know they said when asked that it was "such and such" but ultimately, we all know it was a snub so call it what it was. Brad's death should be treated with dignity and not as an opportunity to gain some "hand" or leverage in a situation. I think Tom absolutely has a right to be upset about this but to his credit it sounds like he is handling it correctly and not resorting to his own cheap shots.
 
March 26, 2007
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friend said:

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Back off of Micki Delp since you obviously didn't know Brad. Brad said it himself, he takes full responsibility. Have some respect dude, Micki lived 3,000 miles away from him with his children, no way could she see it coming when those around him got caught off guard. He played with Beatle Juice for his love of Beatles music not love of performing, he definately didn't love rock music. There were hundreds of close personal friends and family that were left out of the funeral for no apparent reason other than there is just way too many. Brad gave no warning signs in the end, if anything he appeared to be happier than he had in months though now we know why. He had already made his discsion to end his life instead of telling everyone to go take a hike he was done. As selfish as it seems this was the first real thing Brad did for himself. Rest in peace my friend. You will be always loved and missed.
 
March 26, 2007
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tstfrd said:

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Brad knew what he was doing, it was not spur of the moment, he planned it. I don't think a guy 55 years old, with kids, and has been playing in a band for over 30 years is going to commit suicide because they have a tour coming up and a band member may not tour with them. As far as the tour being a problem, it's not like the guy hated to play in front of people, he played with Beetlejuice regularly because he liked to perform. Nobody saw this coming, ex-wifes, family, or friends, if they had they would have gotten him help. I'm suprised that Micki Delp would make incenuating comments and not invite Tom to the funeral. If she knew something nobody else knew, SHE should have gotten Brad help. He played with Tom and Boston for 4 decades, it wasn't because he hated it. Micki Delp should retract those comments. Tom Scholz is not to blame, neither is anyone else. Let Brad Rest in Peace.
 
March 26, 2007
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