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... Without Tom Scholz, there would be no Boston. Without Brad Delp, there would be no Boston. I read where Tom said his songs were just guitar licks until Brad brought them to life. I am so glad these 2 rare talents met and brought this magic to us, the fans. It is not Tom's or anyone elses fault for the choice Brad made. Thank you Tom, Brad and all members of Boston past and present for many years of pleasure in listening to your music. Please Tom, try to find a way to continue making the magic! Thanks, Kelly |
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Daarin, Arvada CO
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... I had been listening to Boston from day 1 and then I got a chance to see a concert in Denver, in 1987 or 1988. It was soooo moving with Brad's voice. I have never tired of the music and still have my origina LP. The last concert I was able to attend was when the band played at Red Rocks amplitheatre. I was in the fourth row. I still remember how the words seemed to speak to me. I will be forever grateful for the music and for the chance to attend. My thoughts and prayers go to ALL of the band and to his fiancee and children. He will be greatly missed but, he will always be in my heart and mind. |
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Jody Snyder
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... My prayers and condolences go out to Brad's family, friends, and band mates. The greatest voice in Rock and Roll was silenced. I have been a fan since 1977. Brad's Rockin in Heaven now. God bless to all. R.I.P. Brad. We all miss you. |
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Laura P.
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... I was truly devastated when I heard the news about Brad Delp. I could barely work that day. I'm always listening to Boston, when I travel, when I'm cleaning my house, and when I'm working. One of the greatest voices ever! I've been to every concert locally and will continue to go as long as Boston tours. Brad, you will truly be missed. My thoughts are with Brad's family, friends and band mates. |
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Tomas
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... I just wanna say...Brad was the best singer in rock.I'm devastated over his passing. RIP Brad...You'll be missed. |
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Keith Burnett
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... I saw Boston in Newcastle in the uk many many years ago and they are without the best band i have ever seen and Brad was the best singer ever. I can still remember every bit of that gig which only goes to prove that whilst he has passed away he lives on through his music and voice. God bless mate! |
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Nikki
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... Suicide is the worst thing a person can do to family and friends and it just leaves behind guilt and emptiness to the survivors, but some people just get to that level of dispair where they'll be fine one minute and feel completely utterly hopeless the next. Tom, I read your website and you and your friends have to realize that you did NOT cause this. As far as those who think they can point their fingers, they don't know what it is like. The guilt is in the "I should haves" but there was nothing you could have done. Perhaps this has been going on for years with Brad and unfortunately would have probably happened at some point. I had a friend who was like this through high school and finally took his life in his early 30's. My friend and (I'm sure) Brad knew they were loved but there was something they just couldn't deal with and it was too deep inside for anyone to see. Do not blame yourself. You are a good person. Godspeed to you and your families and friends. |
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Deb in Boulder, Colorado
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... Perhaps a strange thing for only me, but my husband bought me the remastered debut Boston CD for my birthday,and gave it to me the night before Brad left this world. He got it off back order, which tells you how popular they still are. I listened to it about 3-4 times that night, signing loud, smiling the whole while, but not nearly as well as Brad could--doesn't it just make you want to sing, though? The next day, the news...OMG. I was just stunned. I JUST got that CD, having wanted it for quite a long time, but always forgetting when I was out shopping. I take comfort in having it now, and feel like it's this special piece of history. Over the years, I have always gotten a lift from your music and incredible voice. Now, I'm just thankful you left us with these gifts. Blessings to your family and hope you have peace finally. |
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Les Johnson
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... It is quite obvious that Brad suffered from some type of clinical depression that killss thousands of people a year. We can only speculate what was really going on in Brad's mind. We will truly never know the true motive behind his decisions that seemed to have been planned out. Much love to everyone suffring in mourning for such a wonderful human being. |
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Dan
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... I am deeply touched by the manner in which fellow fans of this great band and its talented members have so eloquently expressed their thoughts, feelings, and grief at the loss of such a gifted person. It puzzles me that a person's departure from our lives, whether we actually knew them or just knew of them, can create in each of us such a void in our hearts and minds that only that person could fill. I am aware that people educated in areas of psychology and counseling would suggest I ought not to be puzzled about the affects of someone's death. Despite such advice, I choose today to grieve and be saddened by Brad's departure. I choose today to be human in my response to such a loss as only I can be. I choose today to let all of the steps, procedures, and tips associated with clinically correct behavior associated with the passing of a loved one sit on the shelf for use later. Since my dad passed away a couple of years ago, I came to the realization during the days and weeks following that only I can grieve for him in my own personal way. There isn't a guide, a book, or even a caring friend that could walk the path I was walking when my he passed. Yes my friends could identify, empathize, and console, yet only I could experience and express the thoughts and words I sensed deep in the core of my being. With this in mind, I share an experience that others may have shared although I have not yet encountered anyone who has. The hours and days immediately following the loss of my dad passed quickly. There was much to do that was directly related to this occasion. Phone calls to friends and loved ones, arrangements in a timely manner with directors and all that goes with planning a funeral, and some quiet time to grieve and recuperate. Of the three, the "business" of getting through the few days did not allow for quiet time. So much to do and so little time! For weeks after the funeral, friends and family would comment about how "nice" everything was. Yet, someone always mentioned that certain things were overlooked: placement of flowers, a card basket, pen and guestbook, etc. Someone even mentioned that thank you cards were never received by those who sent flowers and food items to us during our time of loss. For all the oversights during those few days I apologize sincerely because my intent or the intent of my family was not to forget things while we grieved. I offer my deepest condolences to all of Brad's family, all of his friends, and all of his fans. May the thoughts and memories that Brad left with us and those that are in the making during the days and weeks ahead be those that bring smiles and a heartfelt warmth that only the memory of his presence with us can create. |
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Marcio
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... Brad. May you rest in peace! Tom, I can feel your pain through your words at the official Boston's site. May God heal you. |
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Chris Maget
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... What does it take To Be a Man..... that song now brings tears to my eyes. I wish I would have gone to Beatlesfest in Boston a couple of years ago.... I would've loved to have met him. Why? Why? Why was he depressed? My guess it we'll never know. That'll be a sadness that I'll nevr be able to shake. Chris Maget Pompton Plains, NJ |
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sandypoimb
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... pam,most of us didnt know brad the man,only touched by his voice and boston.i think most of us are still looking for answers, answers that most of us know we will never get. its human nature to vent whether it is positive or negative, and most of the time it is negative..i dont agree with this way of thinking but thats the way it is. the majority of people i have met on this site have been more touched by the pain he must have been feeling and relating it to their own experiences. brad has touched as many people in death as he did in life. thanks for the letter,hope we hear from you again. god bless you both |
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Cary Anderson
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... Boston- What a band eh!?! I can spend hours and hours writing how I feel about Brad Delp's Voice and the music combined, and what it meant to me personaly. I will keep it short and to the truth.. Boston was the best band the world has ever heard! |
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James
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... My heart goes out to Mr. Sholz and the rest of Boston, as well of course to Mr. Delp's family and fiance, and all his friends in between. The world is a sadder place without Brad Delp. JP And it gets harder every day for me to hide behind this dream you see a man I'll never be... |
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Eric
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... Take it from someone who lived near the man, got a chance to know the man and also got a chance to work with the man. Brad was a kind soul who always seemed to have a look in his eyes of lost innocence. Not his own but maybe others around him. He was always soft spoken, never a bad words towards or about anyone. Whatever happened with the original members of Boston happened....whatever. The reasoning behind The Cosmos being dumped from the tour was due to the fact that the 2 of them were performing as Boston. How would YOU feel if you were Brad or Tom and someone was living off of what YOU created? You'd feel cheated. I think everyone should take a step back and remember the man for the tremendous gift he left to all of us.....his voice and music. Seriously, people in their 50's acting no more mature than high school vagrants. It's sad. |
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Alan
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... I can only feel, somehow, this will turn for good in unseen ways. Brads life and legacy has and continues to be praised, even if for humility, which is so fruitful. This life is but a vapor, and it does matter whats left behind. I'm filled with his life of goodness and only wonder at his end. That, thank God, is up to Him above, and I trust In Him to have a place for a man that touched life as he did. I pray we all meet him again on a wonderful eternal day. A musical one. |
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Ian Jukes
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... George Carlin once said "Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the number of moments that take your breath away." Thank you Brad, thank you Tom Scholz, thank you Boston old and new for the many musical moments that have taken our breath away. Ian Jukes - Canada |
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Francisco Segura
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... Siento una gran pena por la reciente muerte de Brad.Aca en chile,hay una gran cantidad de admiradores,los cueles imagino solo se han enterado atraves de internet de este lamentable hecho.Yo personalmente los escucho desde el ao 1988.Los conoci atraves de un gran amigo,Christopher Campbell(saludos). Ojala algun dia Boston pueda venir a Chile.Saludos a todos los seguidores ,desde Chile.CHAOOOO. |
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Kelly Smail
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... Were not there more like Brad, the world might just be a much calmer, peaceful place to live. God Speed Brad! You will be surely Missed by this fan of the "Golden Voice". Kelly |
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Cristi
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... The song "Long Time," says "...you'll forget about me after I've been gone..." Brad Delp will never be forgotten. I was 10 the first time I heard Boston. I used my birthday money to buy their debut album (the first music purchase of my life). My son's first live concert was Boston's "Corporate America" stop in Houston, TX. Brad's voice touched many people, many generations. He will be missed very much. For the surviving band members & for Brad's fiance', please remember that anger is a stage of grief. Accusations being made are just angry words directed at the most obvious target. Sometimes, we truly can't help the ones we love. Sometimes our loved ones don't want to burden us with their internal struggles, so we continue on - oblivious to their pain. Brad - may you rock on with the others who have gone before you to Rock n Roll Heaven. Thank you for sharing your talent with us. Our lives are forever changed for having been blessed by your music. |
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ELLEN BOLDUC EVITTS
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... WENT TO SCHOOL WITH BRAD , HE WAS ONE OF THE NICEST PEOPLE I HAVE EVERY KNOWN. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY. |
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James N.
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... Regardless of the fact that myself along with so many thousands loved Brad's singing and thought that he seemed like a great guy, he thought of himself and his talent as being basically worthless. This was evident in some interviews I saw where he downplays his contribution to Boston. The bottom line is what we think of ourself and our self-worth. Anyway I think we should shoot for unconditional love for ourself and others and unconditional happiness in life as best we can. RIP Brad |
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John Taylor
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... The music sounds different now then it did on March 8th. Ive always been a true fan of Boston but never really listened, Its amazing what a incredible vocalist you were I did not know you but Im sure by the post I have read we would have been friends. Rest easy my friend...I will meet you later. |
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Les Johnson
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... There are no words to describe the feelings we all feel for the loss of one of the very few great voices of our time in Rock n Roll.But if there is one good thing(no, 2 good things) that come out of Brad's death, I hope it would be that the fans recognize that we need to show the love to Tom and to let him know we are behind him now. We love you all and we dont blame you for what happened to Brad and from what Brad has said, he held noone accountable but himself. The other thing I hope happens is that the band will somehow see through this tragedy and carry on with a new album and tour. Please, dont let Brad's death be in vain. He would have wanted you guys to carry on and give the gift of music to the masses. We love you Boston, old and new and we support you with all of our hearts. I personally want to give a shout out to Tom Scholz and the band and to the family of Brad with much love. Please keep the music alive.Its always been More Than A Feeling!!!!! Les In Cleveland |
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Dan_NC
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... Mr. Tom Scholz, Obviously, pain and the "what-if's" will abound in your mind and spirit for some time to come, I think that is inevitable. However, as much I respect Brad- I for one certainly don't blame you for his death. The media has allowed Brad's death barely a blip on the news radar. They do, however, love to exploit and sensationalize negative things without reporting any of the good that Brad Delp and Boston did over the last 30 years? Tom, I don't believe for one minute that you were the type of person to contribute to Brad's despondency. I have heard you are a perfectionist, but so what? You want things done right, what's so bad about that as long as you are kind in expressing your desires?. I think some in this situation should just swallow a few things they may want to say. The last word isn't always so important to be had. We never know what tomorrow may hold so let none of us be able to say that our last words to a departed loved one were in anger. |
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Bob Cayia
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... As the song says, "More Than A Feeling". So was/is it that the music and artistry this man created as part of Boston touched and inspired my life. As a musician I was inspired to no end, as a fellow human being, I was touched by the moral values and respect for all life Brad Delp and the band put before us. It is More Than A Feeling.... it's a way of life. He Rocked with Compassion and Soul. Thank you Boston. THANK YOU BRAD. Peace to you, your family and friends. |
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Chris J
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... I am so sorry for your loss. Brad was my hero growing up, still is. God Bless, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Chris |
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Roger Greeson
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... I'm not one to post much of anything on the internet,but i feel like i've got to write something about the voice of my altime favorite bands. The first time I heard "More than a feeling" the guitars were great but that voice was something that raised the hair on my arms. I've had the chance to see Boston only twice. Once at the Texas Jam in Dallas in 85 and in Austin in 04. In both concerts Brad was in fine form. When I heard about Brads death I was devestated. When I heard later how he died I was saddened. Gosh what a waste. Brad we are all sorry for your obvious pain and loneliness. Wished things were different. Your going to be painfully missed. Love ya man! |
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katie
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... This just gets sadder and sadder. To read that there is still squabbling going on even after his senseless death. Is this what he would have wanted? Of course not! To Pamela, Tom, Micki, Barry, Sib, both Frans, his children, and all the rest of his friends and loved ones: You all must be very special people to have been loved by this man. He obviously saw something good and beautiful in all of you. Take comfort in this. Take this common bond you share, the love of a good man, and use it to bring him the peace in his death he couldn't find in life. It's what he would have wanted and deserved. God bless you, Brad. You were one of a kind, and raised the spirits of and brought joy to many with your beautiful voice. I take comfort in knowing you're in a better place now. With love from one of your many fans, Katie |
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Doug M from Wakefield
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... Your music was my youth. Every lyric and note was background to young love and young foolishness. All things pass. Some too soon. Peace. |
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Keith Kurtiss McIntosh
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... Many folks my age still remember where they were the first time they heard "More Than A Feeling". At that time (1976) you'd really never heard anything like it. Immensely well thought out arrangements, catchy melodies, and that one of a kind guitar sound. Amongst all these things was this incredible voice. Full and passionate, with a range that would make most female singers blush. The vocal arrangements were so dense, and yet so articulate. Brad Delp made you feel as though you were the only one he was singing to. The first BOSTON album (remember albums?) remains a favorite of mine, and while susequent releases lacked the quality of the first, Brad Delp's vocals remained powerful, rich, and passionate, and I consider him to be one of the best ever. Rest In Peace, Brad. And thanks for the feeling. I hope you found Peace Of Mind. |
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Brett
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... Sitting in a restaurant in Vegas, I was floored of the news that my mom's cousin (my second cousin) had passed. I didn't get many opportunities to meet with Brad but the times I did I will always remember. Just one of the greatest people I have ever met and he is truely missed. After speaking with my mother about it, she shared with me some of her memories about Brad when the were children and how he never lost his head even after becoming a rockstar. I remember when I was 13, one of my good friends was going in to have a heart transplant (back in '86) Brad sent up one of his Gold Records for him - that was just the type of person he was. Not only did he have one of the greatest voices he had one of the greatest hearts. May we never forget that..... My condolences to those who were very close to him, god bless..... |
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Greg
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... I have been a Boston fan from day one. It's always very sad to lose a Hero. To the rest of the band, keep the music alive. Rock On. To Brad's family, Keep the faith. Rock On. To Brad, Thank you for the music. Rock On A truly sad tragedy. |
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ksb
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... I cannot believe this man took his life. What a huge loss this is. Look at his picture and see that he was so full of life and remember him that way. My condolences to the friends and family. I pray that God will help you all get through this tragic time. |
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john
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... having grown up in the 70's and 80's the music from boston was a very big part of my life. i became a boston fan immediatley after hearing the debut album. tom's guitar and brads vocals clicked together and immediatly i was hooked. Brads passing will effect millions of people whose lives were touched with his powerful voice. my heartflet condolences go out to his family..past and present, and to tom, and everyone else this kind man touched. never loosing a best friend or someone really close i cant feel your pain, but i want you all to remember all the good things brad stood for, and remember he is in a place where he is not hurting anymore, and is at peace with himself. again, my condolences to the Delp fans, family, and friends at this terrrible time. john in rockford. il. |
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Billy Watson
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... I never met Brad, but was lucky enough to speak with the band when they were interviewed on Rockline back in January of '99. I've been a fan since the first album was release, seen them perform 3 times, great music, great memories! Still in shock... Brad Delp... beloved man, tragic loss. RIP :( |
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Steve Wahlin
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... You are loved very much Bradley.Sorry to have you leave us way too soon. Like John Denver, you had something to say, but you left us way too soon. We will miss you dearly. |
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Sam
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... Thanks Pam for coming out at this difficult time. No doubt your as beautiful a person as Brad. His voice took a hold on me in the 70's and has never let go. I now listen with my teenage boys. They are now in awe of what "real" rock roll sounds like, as I always was. As I read comments from all of Brad's very sad fans I feel I have my closest friend even though I never met Brad his voice has always been in my everyday life. Thanks Pam Sam Messina |
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Mike Olson
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... I remember doing an airband to Foreplay/Longtime in high school. It was so cool. Boston made music that endures which is the greatest thing you can say about it. I can listen to the music night and day and never get tired of it. I had an old car in high school and a tpe of Boston/Boston got stuck inside and played continually for a couple years. I never once tried to remove it, it was exactly what i wanted to listen to day after day. |
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Kevin C
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... Dear family and friends of Brad Delp: I was 11 years old when the self titled "Boston" came out. There has never been another group in which i have logged so many hours listening to. I bought every album, stood in line for hours to get a ticket when they came to Vancouver BC. Even today, when I feel like I just want to touch yesterday, - Brad's voice, the lyrics, the , guitars, the melody...it just takes me back... I looked out this morning and the sun was gone, Turned on some music to start my day I lost myself in a familiar song I closed my eyes and I slipped away... I thought that that song was made for me, but maybe you were writing this song in advance. Thank you Brad & all who made up Boston for the memories... May God bless you Brad |
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Larry Soldano
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... I saw Boston perform in Pittsburgh in 1976 i was 15 at the time and just starting on the guitar. When I heard Brad sing it was the a voice from the heavens and that distinct Boston sound it was amazing, I was so inspired that I went home and played my Boston recored over and over all night and tryed to figure out all the songs. I just want to say Thank You and send my deepest condolences to yhe Delp family at such a sad time.I know in my heart that Brad is in Rock and Roll Heaven |
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John C
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... Pamela < I had the honer of haering Brad up close and seeing him on the last week of his incredible life .I am still in shock from your lose of a great friend and incredible artist..He certainly knew how to make many people very happy.My sympathy goes out too both you and Brads family along with the many fans and co-members that he has touched over the past 50 plus years of his incredible journey. He will always be with us in our hearts. |
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John C
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... Pam Iknow words mean little at a time when someone has lost a person they are in love with ! Your words are a testement of strength too this comunity that loved and admired Brad . thank you for joining hands!Our love too you and many prayers also-- |
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Maria
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... I was really surprised and saddened to hear about Brad's death. When my husband and I first started dating, he let me listen to his classic rock cd's. I immediately fell in love with Boston. Their music will always have special meaning for me. My heart goes out to Brad's family, friends, and the other band members who will never have the chance to be a part of the sound that is Boston again. I truely hope that Brad has found the peace that he was seeking. |
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Mark D., Baltimore
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... I am crushed to like the rest of you. Only now learning recently that he WAS the nicest guy in rock & roll. What a great photo of him on this & Barry's site. I hope to learn of the public memorial service in time to make arragments to drive up or take the Amtrack. Now I am ticked that no one close to him saw any signs of suicide. Some people can hide it I guess. Thanks for reading. |
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Kevin Nitka
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... My condolences and prayers to all of Mr. Delps family and friends. His music was a huge sound for me during my school days and still remains a favorite in my collection. If I may share, on my daughters 9th birthday, March 12, we surprised her with an ipod shuffle. The next day I uploaded many of her "kids" music. A couple of days past and while she was enjoying her music she said, "Dad, one of your songs is on my ipod." I knew that there was no way I could have mistakenly transfered my music files from her computer. I have CD's and albums of Boston but nothing converted to mp3 format. I put the headphones to my ears and "More than a feeling" was playing. After the initial shock and surprise, I appologized to Alexa for the song being there. She said, "it's okay, I like it." Another fan added in the shadows of a tradgic loss. God bless you all. |
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Mel, Va
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... Having experienced recent loss my heart goes out to the family and friends of Brad. Depression is a sad and serious disease and may not always be treatable here on earth. I beleive that Brad and others who have passed feel that pain no more. As for the people left here on earth we should try to celebrate and embrace our positive memories and consiously move forward in becoming better people with the time that we have left. |
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Rich Yost
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... I remember that great day in hi school when that great album came out on 8 track. Such great music and talent. It's such a shame it had to end this way. Boston will never be the same that's for sure. |
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Scott H.
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... So sorry to hear of the terrible news. I pray that all those who loved Brad will be comforted during this tough time. I grew up with Boston's music. The melodic guitar riffs from Tom and the angelic harmonies of Brad produced music that was very very special. The sound and the words touched my very soul and I was inspired by their magic and talent. God bless you all, Scott |
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D Flading
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... I am very saddened by the passing of Brad Delp, I had the pleaseure of seeing the band live in concert 2 times in Houston Texas, and I will always say that it was the best show i have ever seen. Still in shock from the news. My Condolences to all |
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Peter G.
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... What a tremendous loss... Never met you but felt like I knew you... Thank you for the wonderful music and memories. |
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Mark D
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... Brads voice, and the music of Boston, was part of the soundtrack of high school and my early twenties. In the years since, my tastes in music had changed and it had been years since I'd really given "Boston" or "Don't Look Back" a good listen. Well, in the last two weeks, those are about all I've listened to, and in addition to rediscovering some really special music, many memories and waves of emotion have gone along with that. Probably no one but Brad will ever know why he made the choice he did and I hope he is at peace now. For my part, I'll be forever grateful for the memories and emotions in my life that Brad was a part of. I wish Pamela, and Brad's family, comfort as they heal. |
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Rp
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... Message for Tom! Dear Mr,scholz Life is a short one,and there is no blame or otherwise any guilt,all in all its music and humanity and is what it is,I sympathize with the occurances that has been a sad moment in your life,But please consider that it is a transition and there is no blame,your music is what all of us love and I think maybe assuming Brad would want you to continue and I pray for your well being, As a fan of Boston Please consider continuing what we all Love that is your music,that will above all be a continuance not only as rememberance of Brad but what you and Brad have Loved from the begining. A friend among many Rp This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it I know I don't know you but please consider continuing your gift to us all through music. |
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